The Valentines day Blues… Err I mean Reds Valentines’ Day: A Celebration of so called “Love”. Love, Is probably the most sought after emotion and is a must have. It is that butterflies feeling in your tummy, that blush on ur cheeks and that feeling that skips your heartbeat, those sweet nothings you do that will make you feel so happy, those sacrifices that make u’d love to do again and again those wonderful times you have together and those fights where at the end you again patch up coz all that matters is love at the end of day . I’m more nervous than looking forward for this day this time.. How has it changed over the period of time. It is now more of a physical need than emotional. It is more evil than it ever was… I really do not understand how can someone splash acid on the person you love? Oh well stop calling it love in the first place…. There is no place for so much hatred when there is love. It is our duty to educate them, I’d say parents have very less to do in this. It is friends and the circle you hang out with that is behind such incidents. Ohh ya and movies I must say is the core inspiration to be in the “I have to get what I want else I will kill it” attitude. I know I hyper react to such events and write posts like “I hate Men” but at the bottom of the day when I cool down I learnt that the only way to cure something is with love. There are too many issues that revolve around this… * Infatuation : * Physical Vs Emotional(need) : * Love Vs Hatred : And among all this there are some happy stories too.. with the valentines day right in the corner I hear this buzz around me with people planning for surprises etc and I was thinking that this day dint mean a lot to me except that its my best friends birthday and like every year we are gonna have a rocking party
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My reply to it:
Love, Is probably the most sought after emotion and is a must have. >>> We have been well programmed by this statement, and of course the sanity of humanity is very much dependent or is a slave to it.
However i feel that the there is a nothing as Love, but its all Like. Like can be categorized into two: namely Poetical and intellectual. the so called filmy booky love we see is this, the so called i like chocolate, i like tea , i mean where the ego accepts the likes. since humans failed to define love, i came up with understandings.
However i can justify this in many other ways, for now i pause.
How has it changed over the period of time. >>> the words are same, the meaning probably is also same, but differently lived, by who? you, me and we all. Humans are the best for there skills to adopt and adapt. hence i completely embrace this change, however it hurts the human ego and emotions anchored to the previous generation.
It is now more of a physical need than emotional. >>> we live in a newage where intellectual survival superseeds physical and later emotional. logically to prove this, information is wealth, and the rate of survival is greatly reflecting the power of knowledge and skill. with great intellectual minds comes great facts, great facts are those which are understood, felt, touched, tasted, now what about the emotions? lol……… like the undefinable, unseen, omnipresent, white light, violet light, golden light are all well worth confined to the Pooja room or the temple at street end. who as time to spend time after 9-5, the weekends? the competition is so high, we drift away with the current.
With this lifestyle that we choose, that we are embracing, come with a price, it is EMOTION, the more fastfood style love you choose, the better you can grab a byte in between your breaks.
I really do not understand how can someone splash acid on the person you love? >>>> if i poetically understand that Love is freedom, to let go, to forgive comes free with it, hence in a way we need education.
I’d say parents have very less to do in this.>>> I will say FUCK! parent, they dont know what is love, what it takes to love a kid, they dont love themselves, they dont love thier spouse, now they needed a kid? where on earth did a fuking parent teach how to express happiness, how to express sadness, spoken about emotions, who the fuck taught us the word “Love”……
when you refered:::: It is friends and the circle you hang out with that is behind such incidents. ::::
It reminds me of how i heard about masterbation, and how others learnt it from friends. i think its the same case with Love.
I know I hyper react to such events and write posts like “I hate Men” >>> I agree what you say, i condemn the act, not the person though. who ever it is. But when it comes to the context you were referring, This Men… a married man, or committed, as you told, who has no absolute right to take decision alone, is no more the one man show, So i Herby also would like to make it clear is that the ethics or rules or what ever that binds them should be subjective, and when i say that, i dont mean what i feels good should not be good to them, and vice versa. so an act that hurt any one of the party in the act of marriage, are condemnable, but at the time of sin, who ask for redemption? the less egoist person, the ego foreplay the rational always due to lack of education in emotions.
I fuck them all in the name of fuck, who talks poetically, religiously, politically in the name of love, or about love, for love, fuck love. fuck anything that confuses me.
Me, who is a Victim of this mad crowd who lived and bread me into this hell. i fuck me, to write all this fuck. fuck!
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